I'm not just LUCKY!

All right here is my rant. I am tired of hearing how lucky I am to stay home with my kids. I agree I am blessed to be at home with my kids. But I choose to be at home. I choose to forgo an income and am investing in my children. I choose to cut my expenses. I don't have cable. I don't carry a cell phone. I choose to be with my children. I choose because that is the best way to enjoy the real thing that makes me lucky-four healthy beautiful children. So please don't make it sound like it is easy for me but much too hard for you. It is all about choice and my children and yours are worth it. So make the choice that puts you in the home more and then you won't just say you wish you were lucky like me!

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brentandkashann said…

I don't know if you are going to see this because it is pretty old now, but AMEN! I get this all the time too from sisters in the ward who don't have time for this and that, and they tell me how easy it is for me, but yet I don't have the luxuries of life that they are out working for everyday. Why don't they get it?

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

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